Dear February

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Dear feburary, February, why do I always get your spelling wrong? 

Do you know that you’re the perfect calendar month? I like to think that this makes you sexy and perfect. 

O that February face of yours! So full of frost, of storm and cloudiness. 

Early in the mornings when I pull the curtain to let the light in, the dewy mist you have left on my window glass the previous night makes me so lazy to get up that I leave the curtains hanging there and snuggle back to my warm duvet. 

The crispness in the air has decreased a lot now. Plenty of your sunny days indicate that spring is almost here. 

The warmth in the air has resurrected my plants. They have started to breathe and I can see few leaves popping up already. Does that mean that spring is right around the corner? Definitely it is. Just the thought of it soothes my heart. 

There is something very intimate about you, O February! I will miss the long cold nights when I can snuggle in bed and read away the night. I will miss those rosy cheeks you give us in the cold. I will miss wearing boots and scarves. I will miss writing to you on a lazy Sunday afternoon listening to sweet emotion on the radio. Sigh! We humans are never satisfied. 

But one thing. I shall cherish you while you are here. Please be good.

Word of the year

For reasons unknown, I always have difficulty in the beginning of the year. I find myself struggling a lot. I struggle to get out of bed in the morning, I struggle to run errands. I struggle to read and write - the refuge to my thoughts. The creative juice seems to stop flowing altogether. 

The sail isn’t that smooth. I went through my archives on the blog for the past years and it confirmed my doubt. I have always written dark posts in January. I don’t know why that happens. Perhaps it’s the dark, cold and long winter months. Perhaps it’s the dry weather. Or the promise of a snowfall which tires my heart from waiting. 

When heading home at the end of a tiring day at work, my colleague always remark, ‘oh it’s so dry in winter, everything seems lifeless.’ I nod my head in agreement with a little hmmm sound as I scan the brazen tall, thin trees around, plastered with scowling faces staring at me. I stare right back at them with a look of annoyance. That air of confidence is long lost in everybody because everyone seems crippled with the dreadful cold winter.

Another dear friend says he wants to do nothing but drink whiskey and pass the long winter nights in front of a fireplace. ‘And turn an alcoholic by the time winter is over?’ I joke at him. 

It’s a struggle altogether. I have been meaning to find a WORD for the year. I struggled in that as well. Until yesterday afternoon, when I was out for a walk up the hills, closer to the mountains that an epiphany hit me. Yes, I found the WORD. It’s POSITIVITY. 

I like to think that I’m a positive person. Whenever something unpleasant occurs I try to shrug it off and focus on the good things. After all, you only live once and life is too precious to be wasted on negative energy and thoughts. But this year I’d like to assert more on it. 

Like a thunder and lightning before the rain, winter is here before the bountiful spring reappears and warmth and life all around is restored. It won’t be long before I get to see the flower buds and feel the warm air on my face. I shall close my eyes then and let the air fiddle with my hair. 

On these cold nights, I shall look at the moon hanging like silver earring in a black sky and realize that life is glorious. And that I have no business to take it granted. As I mark my calendar every day, I’m hopeful that I will get to hear something good very soon. That my hard work would be paid off. I’m positive that even if I don’t get rewarded, I will always have a better tomorrow, for God has a plan for me. 

For it’s about the perseverance you have in life. For it’s the new day you get to live and experience. For it’s the gratitude and goodness in life that you deeply care about that you want to spread around. For it’s the patience for the snowfall. And this lousy feeling of sadness will pass away. Somewhere something incredible is waiting to be known. And I hope, somewhere in the next year, I surprise myself.

That’s positivity. 

Have you found your word for the year? 

Friendship

Three days and it will be 2015. Today is the last weekend of the year 2014 and the last post for the year. Nostalgic? Certainly I am. 

And a little excited as well because I’m looking forward to the next year. I’m hopeful that 2015 would be even better. 

On a lighter note, this post is not about my ramblings which I normally do. This post is  dedicated to my two friends. It’s about a tradition we have. It’s about the lives we have had thus far. It’s about my two girlfriends, Dechen Wangmo and Pema Choki. It’s about our friendship. 

As adults it’s so difficult to make friends. I’m sure everybody agree to this. It’s even more difficult to make friends when you are an introvert. Every individual is different. We have our own priorities, tastes and preferences in life. And especially for me, if it doesn’t click, I immediately step back and withhold my friendship with that person. Because friendship for me is everlasting. For a lifetime.

But. But I’m glad that I have these two lovely ladies whom we run to each other whenever we suffer heart break from our love interest and from the husbands. These two women are the ones I run to and cry on their shoulders like a baby. In happiness and in sorrows, in good days and in stormy weather, we have been there together. The warmth of each others' shoulders are forever meant to be there. 

with Pema

with Dechen

Pema and I have known and been together since undergraduate days. We were roommates in our freshman year in college. And even in PG days we became roommates. 9 years is a long time to have known each other. And our friendship has become like old wine, the older it gets, better it becomes. 

Pema and I met Dechen during our PG days, as roommates again. A heart of a gold she has. With twinkling eyes, she is a sexy momma to a year old toddler and is always full of enthusiasm and positivity towards life. A fitness and health enthusiast, she is creative and inspiring. You can follow her on instagram to get some dose of inspiration and creativity. 

Apart from the regular catch ups, we have this tradition of meeting for a brunch before the year ends every year. Thus, this tradition happened last weekend. We met up, hunted for some warm and cozy coffee shops and spent hours catching up on each other's lives.

My life has been the same and boring like last year and the years before. But these two women have moved so far in life already. They have tied their knots, had a baby and juggles life between work and home and family. And me? The coward me? I have remained where they left me. Nonetheless, I hope to gather some inspiration and the strength from these bold women, take some lessons and follow their footsteps in 2015. Bless me, O Lord. 

I thank you for your part in my journey. Friends indeed are the sunshine of life. Thank you for being my sunshine, Pema and Dechen. I'm incredibly lucky to have you ladies in my life.

As the year comes to an end, I would also like to thank my dear readers for being with me throughout the year. Reading my ramblings and sometimes leaving a comment inspired me a lot to keep blogging thus far. And I hope you will be with me in the years to come. I wish you a marvelous and a blessed year ahead. See you in 2015.

2014 // The year to reading

So we are in the last leg of the year 2014. Isn’t it the best time to contemplate on your goals and challenges? As I started this year I had one challenge set; to read and read. Well, if you ask me if I achieved it. I did. Definitely. There is nothing like setting a goal and working towards it. 
 

I challenged myself to read these 9 books. I did cheat a little though. I skipped Inferno. When I got hold of it, I realized that I had past the age of Dan Brown’s books. It no longer excited me. After making it to a couple of pages, I immediately stopped. It wasn't juicy and ripening any more to keep me hooked. There are certain authors’ that no longer mesmerize me. It could be an indication that my taste for books and literature have changed. I couldn’t get a copy of The Messenger though.

Nonetheless, I read 14 more books which pretty compensates for missing on the above said books. In fact, it more than compensates. So here’s the total list of books I read in 2014:

1. And the Mountains Echoed by Khaled Hosseini 
2. Lolita by Vladimir Nabokov 
3. The Husband’s Secret by Liane Moriarty 
4. The Hypnotist’s Love Story by Liane Moriarty
5. The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath 
6. I am Malala by Malala Yousafzai 
7. Looking for Alaska by John Green 
8. Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn 
9. The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin 
10. Palpasa café by Narayan Wagle 
11. Those Pricey Thakur Girls by Anuja Chauhan
12. Lean in by Sheryl Sandberg 
13. Matilda by Roald Dahl 
14. Heidi by Johanna Spyri 
15. Norwegian Wood by Haruki Murakami 
16. The Catcher in the Rye by J.D Salinger  
17. A Leaf in the Wind by Jean O’Hart 
18. Freakonomics by Steven D. Levitt and Stephen J. Dubner 
19. Eleanor & Park by Rainbow Rowell
20. The Gold Finch by Donna Tart 
21. David and Goliath: Underdogs, Misfits, and the Art of Battling Giants by Malcolm Gladwell 

Some of the reviews can be found here and here. Number 20 and 21 are audiobooks which I listened to while commuting to work, before going to bed at night and whenever I was free. Listening to audiobooks changed my life. I can never get bored because there’s always something that occupies me. Since I listen to it from my cellphone (now who stays away from your phone? I don’t.),it’s a lot easier. It sometimes makes you feel that you are conversing with the author in real. And of course it improves your vocabulary ten times more. 

This year has been the busiest work wise, especially during the second half of the year. It was so difficult to make time for reading yet I could finish 21 books. I’m proud of my achievement. The old adage rings a bell? Where there’s a will there’s a way. 

I have a long way to go though. Since I made this 30 before 30 list I have finished reading 32 books in 2 years and still counting. Another mile to go and I’m pretty confident that I will achieve it. What better way to dedicate to another year of reading since Bhutan has declared 2015 as National Reading Year to commemorate the 60^th birth anniversary of our beloved 4^th Druk Gyalpo.  

I’m sure that when I could read these number of books you definitely can. So I encourage you to take to reading in 2015 especially the young minds. Parents can always read bed time stories to your children to inculcate the habit of reading in young minds. After all a child who reads, thinks. I’m sure we all can manage 20 minutes from our daily 24 hours clock to dedicate it to reading. 

So I’m focusing the year 2015 to reading literature, though fiction will somewhat be in my daily reads.  I will be starting with The Mill on the Floss by George Eliot. If you have any recommendation on the books on literature, I’d love to hear in the comments section below.

Were you able to achieve your goals in 2014? And what do you plan on doing in 2015? 

P.S: I’d like to thank the lovely Rima for sending me The Happiness Project, The Hypnotist’s Love Story and Gone Girl all the way from Singapore, my friend Kunga for sending me A Leaf in the Wind which was personally signed by the author herself from Australia. Indeed, life is so much better when friends understand your love for reading and send you books as birthday gifts. Thank you lovelies. 

Have a lovely weekend! 

Celebrating Autumn : the year's last loveliest smile

I like to wear my heart on the sleeve when it comes to autumn. And it isn't a secret here in this little blog.

Plenty of warm sunshine, the crisp air, clear blue skies and blankets of golden leaves on the ground makes my heart flutter.

On days like these, I like to go to the park, read a book under the sun and take a nap, which I did last weekend only to attract weird stares from people at the park. At the risk of not seeming too creepy I quickly picked up my things and headed home. Tomorrow is officially the end to this glorious season. 

This morning when the sun played hide and seek, I was nervous thinking that I wouldn’t be able to go out to bask in this glorious season for the last time. Hopefully, Mr. Sun came out and we didn’t waste a minute in heading out. It was truly breathtaking to go out and take photos in different parts of the capital. I couldn’t help but pose in almost all the photos at the risk of looking narcissist. And the inner child in me came out and I tried catching the falling leaves, played with the leaves (as seen in the pic below) and mistook a wild nut for hazelnut and ate it. Thank God, I'm still breathing. Thus this post. :)

 

Happy Thanksgiving weekend!

What I love about Autumn

What is there not to love about autumn? The year’s last loveliest smile.

The fall of the sunburnt leaves adorning the earth in all its mellowed beauty

The crisp air

The sweater weather

Large and chunky scarves

Crunchy leaves

Snuggle/reading by the fire

The flushed cheeks

Dressing in layers and leggings

Eating bathup and making that slurping sound

Autumn has always been my favorite season and I can’t stop obsessing over all things autumn. It’s the time when everything bursts with its last beauty, as if nature had been saving up all year for the grand finale. I’m so glad I live in the world where there are autumns.  

So I took a little walk in the park this afternoon and got to take these gorgeous pictures. 

Tell me what do you love most about autumn?

 

An update and a Book Review // Eleanor & Park

Things have never been busy like this before.Between moving houses, relocating to a new office (temporarily), traveling for work and the amount of reports and essays I have been shoving up my face at work is completely draining me out. Literally.

That’s why I have been MIA and this little blog has been ignored for some time now. Man, blogging is tedious sometimes! Huge commitment is required which I’m miserable at. Kudos to all blog buddies who never is on writer’s block. 

Well well,what made me come back to do a little update? My love for books. 

I just finished reading Eleanor & Park. I had to share it with you here because if I don’t, uh…nothing will happen. 

Duh. 

On a recent travel overseas I quickly picked this book on an impulsive shopping spree. Well, I’ve heard of Rainbow Rowell’s books before and had wanted to read Fangirl but this book’s cover caught my attention. I know I’m not supposed to judge a book by its cover. That’s cliché, I tell you. Because I picked this book by its cover, I mean look at the cover, isn’t it CUTE? A red head girl and a boy, sharing a headpiece. So simple yet beautiful. 

I finished the book in two days straight. Why? Because it kept me hooked. I couldn’t go to bed without telling myself ‘Just one more chapter’ and run late for work with large prominent eye bags. I had to shut myself in the room and cut off human contact because I couldn’t put down the book. It has been long since I read a good book. Eleanor & Park, a 2013 young adult novel tells a beautiful, haunting love story of two sixteen year olds in Omaha, Nebraska, in 1986. 

Eleanor is the new girl, the girl with the crazy red hair and strange clothes. She comes from a very dysfunctional family. Every moment at home for her is terrifying as she lives in constant fear of offending her abusive alcoholic stepfather. She shares a cramped room with her four siblings where toothbrush is a luxury and she has to go to school in wet crumpled clothes. 

Park is a half-Korean kid who has a more stable family life but constantly has a conflict with his father. 

Eleanor and Park bond over comic books and music and falls in love on their school bus but deals with domestic abuse, child abuse, racism, bullying and body image. Then the kick-ass plot reveals and immediately I fell in love with the characters. It just blew me away. 

The writing is as soft and silky as creamy butter that melts right away as you put it in your mouth. Like this quote: 

"Eleanor was right. She never looked nice. She looked like art, and art wasn't supposed to look nice; it was supposed to make you feel something." 

The fact that the story is told from both Eleanor and Park’s perspectives makes the character overwhelming. The way they speak to each other, about everything makes me renew my faith in love. It reminds you of your high school teenage love, that’s if you had one. 

Throughout the book, one word that constantly came out of me after each chapter was “CUTE.” Frankly, I giggled all the way towards the end of the book and craved for more. It’s a light read with just 325 pages. Rowell definitely left me craving for more. I wouldn’t be able to pick up another book for a while now.